July 26, 2022

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This week, tune in for the finale of our TV theme! Quizmaster Andi pushes the envelope with four facts about taboos on TV. But one of them is a lie! Join hosts Tanner and Sups to try and guess which one it is!

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Tanner

Well, yeah, I mean, everyone knows that's the sexiest

Sups

part of it woman,

Andi

So back to star Trek, I love

Tanner

star Trek.

Andi

50 years from now, are you gonna be like, can

Tanner

you believe that you

Andi

nipples?

Tanner

can't show butts on TV's basically what this boils down to. Yeah.

Andi

well, obviously the butt is both sexual and atory. And she said it was like, who

Tanner

cares?

Andi

Yeah, she was over it.

Sups

It's shared

Andi

Hello and welcome to this episode of the, I should have known podcast, the trivia podcast that can't be trusted each week. Our quiz master presents you with four big facts on a topic, but one of those facts is a lie. And this week we are finishing up our TV themed month and I will be your quiz master I'm Andy. And I'm going to be presenting you. Four facts about TV taboos. But one of my facts is a lie. So join our other host soups and Tanner and trying to figure out which one it is.

Tanner

Taboos.

Andi

Yeah. So get ready to be uncomfortable. so love hanging fruit. What show had what is widely, but erroneously considered the first interracial kiss on TV

Tanner

erroneously. So the first thing is wrong already.

Andi

this is why it's the low hanging fruit. Yeah.

Tanner

I always heard that it was star Trek.

Andi

yes. so Quite famously in the us in the original series star Trek in 1968, characters captain Kirk and Lieutenant Auraura. Captain Kirk is played by William Shatner, who is a white actor. And Lieutenant aura is played by Michelle Nichols, who.

Tanner

is

Andi

Black actress. They kissed in this episode,

Tanner

mm-hmm,

Andi

So this is a good, low hanging fruit because it illustrates a couple caveats. We need to keep in mind for this episode. Okay. So one is, we're gonna be talking exclusively about the us. Okay. Because actually a British movie on TV had a black, white kiss. About nine years before. also this fact is confusing because what's a kiss and what's interracial. So some of the taboos and things we talk about, it's kind of like you can get really into the weeds. We're not gonna do that. We're gonna keep it kind of light. We're not gonna care about more obscure places.

Tanner

Yeah.

Andi

And then the other issue that comes up is incidental versus scripted. So this was a scripted moment. Mm-hmm in the. This was not, you're doing a live show on the streets and a couple kisses. This is like they planned this kiss. The reason this kiss is remembered more is one because star Trek was hugely popular. Whereas these other shows were not. And two, because it was in the us. So in the us only one year before this kiss, it was still illegal in some parts of the country for black and white people to marry.

Tanner

Hmm damn.

Sups

All right.

Tanner

That was certainly a taboo then Wow.

Andi

That was a big moment.

Tanner

So with this episode, we're really gonna have to try to get into the mindset of the people at the time.

Sups

Right?

Andi

Well, some of the taboos some people would say they are still taboos there's some of them are still debated, but yes, some of these are definitely gonna be like, wait, people cared about

Tanner

that. Okay.

Andi

I think fact number one, it will be a good example. So we're going roughly chronologically. Great. So fact number one, first four major shows with couples shown in the same bed together. Starred real life married couples.

Tanner

couples.

Sups

Oh, wow.

Andi

it wasn't until 1964, before a couple was shown in a single bed together where the actors weren't married.

Tanner

Wow. They just straight up didn't show people in beds.

Andi

So back in the day, first of all, it have to be a married couple.

Tanner

Yeah.

Andi

We just, it has to

Sups

to be. Yeah. Yeah,

Tanner

yeah.

Andi

If there was ever a scene of them in their bedroom, like going to sleep, they had two separated twin beds. So they slept in two separate twin beds. Mm-hmm on off screen

Tanner

and it wasn't like they were divorced or they were having trouble or anything. Nope. They were a happy couple.

Andi

yeah. And actually for a lot of these shows the couples started separate beds and then eventually they just kind of were like, this is annoying. just put 'em in one bed. Who cares?

Tanner

bit. Yeah.

Andi

yeah. So the very first show. To have, this was actually the first sitcom ever as a very rarely known show called Mary Kay and Johnny. Okay. This show came out in 1947.

Tanner

Wow.

Sups

okay.

Tanner

Very early.

Andi

Which is why if you've never heard of it, you can be forgiven because all of the tapes were destroyed.

Tanner

Oh, no,

Andi

Only one episode survives and a few fragments.

Sups

fragment.

Tanner

is a thing that I read about with how TV works. It was more cost effective to reuse the tapes or to get rid of them. So this totally makes sense that they lost all the tapes, or they destroyed them idea.

Andi

So the. Characters, Mary Kay and Johnny were Mary Kay and Johnny Sterns who were a married couple mm-hmm and they were shown in a bed together. The next famous show was, I love Lucy. Oh, also a show called the adventure of Ozzie and Harriet.

Tanner

heard those names. Yeah.

Andi

And then be witched, which also stars a real life married couple The first major show was the monsters. Oh, okay. In 1964.

Tanner

they weren't married.

Andi

the actors weren't married. Yeah. actually. you might read sometimes that the first show with a couple that's not married in a same bed is the Flintstones

Tanner

oh, because it's they're voice actors. Oh goodness.

Andi

Yeah. So that's hilarious. That's kind of often people will say it's the Flintstones. Yeah. Obviously that's an animated show.

Tanner

so

Andi

Nobody was in the bed together at all. Anyway. Yeah.

Tanner

Mm-hmm

Andi

this whole concept is super bizarre to me

Sups

was this like a reflection of the society back then? I mean, this taboo has to come from

Tanner

somewhere. Yeah. Was it risque to show people in bed or was it showing people in bed together meant they were gonna have sex or like, what was the issue?

Andi

Honestly, I don't know. I really think it's just the suggestion of sex, right. That you're in bed. So it's suggestive, I

Tanner

I see mm-hmm okay.

Andi

And I think the idea was that the sensors weren't as upset because they knew that those two people are married anyway.

Tanner

Right.

Andi

So it's not like they're promoting premarital sex or something,

Tanner

Yeah. It's not as risque. That's a very

Sups

weird tip. And then we have, shows of today where We've taken a complete

Andi

U-turn Yes. Well, yeah, we have come a long way. I suppose you could say.

Sups

very interesting.

Andi

Well, yeah,

Sups

as if, if they didn't promote it on TV, people weren't gonna have sex. Like, so

Andi

it's pretty ridiculous. Nowadays. But this was a big

Tanner

deal.

Andi

Yeah.

Tanner

But like trying to figure out if the, that could be a lie, you know, it would be the married couple part for me.

Sups

Yeah.

Tanner

I'll have to see what the next fact, I guess.

Andi

So back number two Cher was allowed to show her belly button on the sunny and Cher show, because it was an Audi.

Sups

Audi.

Andi

So just real quick, if you don't know

Sups

that Wow.

Andi

Belly button is an Audi, like the fleshy part inside sticks out. Yep. Yep. If you don't know it, then

Tanner

and the other one is an inny.

Andi

Most people have inny right where you're belly button goes in. Right. But she had an Audi. So this is considered to be the reason why she was allowed to. this was in 1975 mm-hmm And before that it was absolutely not allowed to show a female belly button,

Tanner

a female, one

Andi

specifically female

Tanner

Naval. Well, yeah, I mean, everyone knows that's the sexiest

Sups

part of it woman,

Tanner

so

Andi

Oh man.

Sups

Yeah.

Tanner

Wow.

Andi

Yeah, there's a show called I dream of genie,

Tanner

Mm-hmm

Andi

Starting Barbara Eden, and she had to go through great lengths to ensure her belly button didn't show because she wore kind of a, like a belly dancer esque outfit, cuz she's a

Sups

a genie Jeanie.

Andi

And it was high wasted. It covered her belly button, but barely, she actually had to wear like a prosthetic, like a patch of skin to protect her really belly button because it would fall all

Tanner

the time.

Andi

Yeah. she said it was a nightmare to shoot with it. So this reminds me of the issue nowadays with nipples.

Sups

Yeah.

Andi

Yeah.

Tanner

Men's nipples

Andi

are okay. You can't show female nipples. You can show male ni.

Tanner

Mm-hmm

Sups

that really bothers me on Instagram. Like, all these models posting the photos, everything's out there, but you just blur out that And suddenly that's okay. Yeah.

Tanner

Yeah. Okay. And if you put a sticker of a male nipple over the top, then it wouldn't get blurred. Yeah,

Andi

So a lot of people kind of compare it to that. Whereas like the belly button used to be seen apparently as an obscene part of your body and, and was taboo. So the deal with the sunny and Cher show, it was a comedy hour skit show. And. Share many times wore outfits that showed her entire midriff, right. Uhhuh. And she made this choice, this wasn't an accident. She made the choice to show her belly button. And she said it was like, who

Tanner

cares?

Andi

Yeah, she was over it.

Sups

It's shared

Andi

yeah,

Sups

I,

Andi

Right. And she. Was really thin at this time and, and quite muscular. So her belly button like stuck out. Yeah. and they were like, well, this is fine, cuz it's not sexy.

Tanner

Mm.

Andi

One of her producers basically justified it that.

Tanner

like,

Andi

because of her body type. It's not sexy. So it's fine.

Tanner

wow.

Andi

very much disagree. I have seen pictures. I think it's plenty sexy, but it wasn't obscene.

Sups

Okay. Wow.

Tanner

That's awfully

Andi

weird.

Tanner

I never heard of something like that. Like, oh, it's an Audi. Okay. You

Sups

can show it

Andi

but if you watch like old shows from that era, all the women are wearing high waisted, everything, high waisted bikinis, you can show an entire leg, but

Tanner

not the belly button

Andi

But I think

Tanner

Cher is amazing. Good for her, for pushing to wear what

Andi

wherever she wanted. Yeah. Yeah.

Tanner

that's awesome.

Andi

yeah. You know, 1975 was what almost 50 years ago, you know, 50 years from now, are you gonna be like, can

Tanner

you believe that you

Andi

nipples? Like they had to blur the nipple. Yeah. You know, so maybe, yeah, I think so. Maybe it'll be like

Tanner

that. I'll have to wait and see just like we have to wait and see what fact three

Sups

is.

Andi

Good segue. fact, number three, the first same sex kiss on network TV between women occurred almost 10 years before the first between men.

Tanner

Okay. Okay.

Andi

And again, this is network TV, and this is a TV show. So we are ignoring TV, movies, and plays being shown on TV. We're talking about scripted network TV. Okay. So the show on NBC was called LA law.

Sups

Oh,

Andi

And featured a kiss between a by woman and a straight woman. Okay. basically the show coined the term lesbian kiss episode.

Sups

Oh,

Tanner

Oh,

Andi

which wow.

Tanner

where would we be without the lesbian kiss episode?

Sups

I think Nielsen ratings

Andi

what was

Sups

like next level.

Tanner

then? Or did they scare away? People cause of the taboo.

Andi

So that was the point of a lesbian kiss episode is one where it doesn't really have anything to do with the plot or the characters, but is entirely to generate shock and

Tanner

conversation. Yeah.

Andi

a hundred percent that was. How people viewed it, the writer's claim, it was to further flesh out one of the characters, but the relationship doesn't go anywhere. Right. this is not a couple, one of the women. She's like a one time character. This is the episode. She's a so it's for shock value. Yeah. In 1991 there were a few other shows that had kisses between women. Also it's important to note, this is a romantic

Tanner

ish kiss

Andi

Uhhuh So back to star Trek, I love

Tanner

star Trek.

Andi

Yes. So in star Trek, two female characters Auraura and nurse chapel, they kiss on the mouth. But like a very quick, like almost French, like

Tanner

greeting, not

Sups

a French kiss, Not a French kiss. Yeah, yeah, yeah. oh my God.

Andi

No, not a French.

Sups

kiss. That would

Tanner

take a couple of

Andi

minutes,

Sups

but

Tanner

like a greeting, like Yeah. Greeting. Oh, hi. Nice to see you smooch.

Andi

Yes. A greeting kind of like on the corner of the mouth, it's not romantic, so that doesn't count. We're talking about people who are like,

Sups

Romantically right.

Andi

kind of, because apparently they didn't have a relationship anyway. And so then between male characters was in 2000 on Dawson's

Tanner

Creek. Oh,

Andi

wow. Have

Tanner

you heard of Dawson's

Andi

Yeah. I've heard

Tanner

Dawson's

Sups

I think very difficult. Not to hear about. Yeah.

Andi

Yeah. Mm-hmm so Dawson's Creek was a teen drama, right? Becoming of age and these two characters. It was actually very dramatic. It was a big build up. It was a season finale episode and these two male characters kiss. And this one is kind of considered to be the first gay, passionate kiss on TV passion, all the ones before, especially between the women, it was either they were testing kind of like, I think I might be Gabe like, oh, I'll find out

Tanner

from one

Sups

kid. And that's how you find out whether you're gay or

Tanner

not go around kissing people.

Sups

kissing's the kids test.

Andi

apparently. Okay. Oh, wow.

Tanner

but the, passionate part.

Andi

Yeah. So these two characters on Dawson's Creek, They were kind of dating and it was a very romantic moment. And so it was like these two characters. were like in love, kind of mean they were teenagers. Right. You know? Yeah. But this was like real romance. it was very cute. Like you get the warm fuzzies. It's not sexy. It's not testing. It's not for fun. or a joke. Yeah. Because a lot of kisses between, male characters for laughs. Right.

Sups

That To me doesn't

Tanner

count mm-hmm

Andi

Right.

Tanner

But it was still a taboo.

Andi

It was a pretty big,

Tanner

deal.

Sups

and

Andi

it was a

Tanner

hit for the show. Yeah. I was gonna say, how did the

Andi

rating suit.

Sups

I mean, Dawson's Creek

Tanner

was a popular show. Yeah. It's interesting that we were talking about taboos. And so it might turn people off, but with TV, you play into that shock factor and it Turns people on or at least they

Sups

turn on the TV. Oh,

Andi

what the,

Sups

Wow.

Tanner

Yep. I

Sups

can

Tanner

that. Yeah. There's still some room for it to be a lie, but I think that's

Andi

believable. That's my note back number four. Okay. Fact number four. I'm

Sups

re excited about

Tanner

number four. Okay.

Andi

Fact, number four. originally the FCC find ABC 1.4 million for a shot of a female backside on N Y P D blue, even though the scene was not sexual,

Tanner

can't show butts on TV's basically what this boils down to. Yeah.

Andi

the scene was not sexual this female character is. At like her boyfriend's house and her boyfriend has an eight year old son and she's getting ready for the shower and the boy walks

Sups

in.

Tanner

Okay.

Andi

And so you get the shot of her whole ass and her whole back. And then the camera flips, which I actually think is even a better shot where it's to the front. But because as a child, he has big ears and they're like very perfectly over her nipples. And it's like, it's actually a really great

Tanner

shot. Oh wow

Sups

It's very autistic, I

Andi

Yeah. They like planned it. They were thinking how much can we show

Tanner

Well, they were also probably thinking how much is the fine gonna be for this

Andi

Just so everyone knows the FCC is the federal communications commission. So they're the body of the us government that is in charge of the standards relating to broadcasting

Tanner

mm-hmm So they censor

Sups

the cen board.

Andi

yeah. So at the time this was the largest fine that they had given out. Because this episode came out in 2003, but the FCC didn't issue its fine until 2008.

Tanner

What

Andi

The network had shown the show many times. And so they got fined. like a hundred thousand plus dollars per showing. And so then that totaled to $1.4 million. This show N Y P D It was famous for sexuality and nudity on TV. This is a network show, right? It's on ABC. Well, it was, it ran, 1993 to 2005.

Tanner

Wow. It's a long run.

Andi

yeah. So they'd really push the envelope on this mm-hmm and so a lot of people hated the show.

Tanner

it's too much for them too much taboo

Andi

I mean yeah.

Tanner

So the, but that was shown was not sexual.

Andi

Yeah. the thing that also kind of wrinkled people was the show had shown a man's butt many times,

Tanner

which many

Andi

big deal Yeah. But they didn't get fined for showing a man's butt. Right. But then there's this seven, second

Sups

of are you surprised at this point?

Andi

I dunno if you've

Tanner

noticed

Andi

a, theme with

Tanner

I should have known

Sups

should known, like, I know this,

Andi

Yeah. So actually, in 2011, this went to the Supreme court among other cases and was thrown out because they said that the FCCS rules were too vague and violated the first amendment of free speech. Because the rule said you can't show These body parts in relation to sexual and exploratory activities.

Sups

Okay. Mm-hmm

Andi

so they were like, well, obviously the butt is both sexual and atory.

Tanner

but not if it's not on a toilet or in a bed, right.

Sups

Or on the beach.

Tanner

in a car, right? Yeah It

Sups

the car. Yeah. Okay.

Andi

Yeah. So this did get thrown out eventually.

Sups

So ABC didn't pay the fine. No.

Tanner

Okay

Sups

Good Some sense prevailed.

Andi

yeah,

Sups

okay. So we must check this episode out to decode it

Tanner

To find seven seconds of a $1 million butt

Sups

All right.

Andi

that is a $1.4 million ask. Actually the actors had mentioned that she was honored.

Tanner

wow

Andi

Yeah

Tanner

Yeah. That's kind of hard to believe. That's a lot of money.

Andi

It's interesting to think. What's the next taboo to be

Tanner

be broken. Right

Sups

So Andy before Tanner and I take a guess, which, As the lie could you please repeat the facts for us?

Andi

Of course. So fact number one, the first four major shows with couples shown in the same bed together. Starred real life, married couples fact number two, share in the sunny and share show was allowed to show her belly button because it was an Audi fact. Number three, the first same sex kiss on network TV between women occurred almost 10 years before the first between men and fact number four. Originally the FCC find ABC 1.4 million for a shot of a female backside on N Y P D blue, even though the scene was not sexual. One of those is all lie.

Tanner

Oh, boy,

Sups

What you thinking?

Tanner

These are tough. I really like fact number two. I want that one to

Sups

be true. Oh no I think, I think that's like you think so. Mm I think it was just blanket, belly button, like you know? and she was allowed to maybe because of some other, other reason, not because of this,

Tanner

Audi. Yeah.

Sups

No, I have a feeling it's number two, but even though I want it to be true. Yeah. But I don't know. What are you

Tanner

thinking? That's a good idea. Yeah. I'm thinking it might be the third one. I think maybe they showed men kissing before women

Sups

See you're saying that Dawsons Creek was like the first one or even Dawsons Creek is a light.

Tanner

Maybe it's a different show or maybe Dawson Creek was accurate, but the women kissing was later, right. LA law.

Sups

Ooh that could be interesting. That is actually the men

Tanner

kissing. Yeah. Yeah.

Sups

Yeah no, I'm gonna stick to my gut. Stick with number

Tanner

two. Okay. I like the other ones and they make a

Sups

a lot of sense.

Tanner

Yeah. I'm gonna go with number three.

Sups

Okay.

Andi

Okay. The women did kiss

Tanner

first. They really

Andi

really did. Yeah. The women kissed first, but they were showing like male couples in like the seventies. Yeah.

Tanner

So they said that they were gay, but they weren't kissing.

Andi

Yeah Yeah. They were a couple, they're married or their partners or whatever in the seventies. Wow. But no one kissed until 2000 The lie is fact number two.

Tanner

Oh, it is Cher. Doesn't have an Audi.

Andi

Cher does not

Sups

have an

Tanner

Audi.

Andi

Oh yeah. Well, at least she did in 1975. I don't know now. Yeah, So I made up the Audi part. Cher was the first major and deliberate person to show belly button. But the reason was literally cuz she was Cher and she wanted

Tanner

to

Sups

See

Andi

she was like, it looks better like that I'm doing it. I don't

Tanner

Yeah I mean her name is in the title, so who's gonna tell her no

Andi

yeah. And the producers did say gross stuff about her belly button like that, she was very skinny and she was like really fit and skinny.

Tanner

mm-hmm

Andi

So they did say it was unsexy. But no one ever really gave a reason why it got to pass the sensor. Other than I think by 75 people were kind of more open to it. the us code of practice for TV broadcasters. they got rid of it eight years later. So it was kind of on its way out anyway, it was kind of not really being enforced anymore and she's share, so she's just, I'm doing it. So,

Sups

sense

Tanner

That's really cool.

Sups

Yeah.

Tanner

should have known,

Sups

I should have known

Andi

Thanks for listening to this episode of the, I should have known podcast. We are finished with our TV theme with this episode, and we'll be continuing onto a new one next month. And if you have an any belly button, you should share this episode with your friends. And thanks for listening.

Tanner

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