TV Taboos - Television Theme
This week, tune in for the finale of our TV theme! Quizmaster Andi pushes the envelope with four facts about taboos on TV. But one of them is a lie! Join hosts Tanner and Sups to try and guess which one it is!
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Well, yeah, I mean, everyone knows that's the sexiest
Supspart of it woman,
AndiSo back to star Trek, I love
Tannerstar Trek.
Andi50 years from now, are you gonna be like, can
Tanneryou believe that you
Andinipples?
Tannercan't show butts on TV's basically what this boils down to. Yeah.
Andiwell, obviously the butt is both sexual and atory. And she said it was like, who
Tannercares?
AndiYeah, she was over it.
SupsIt's shared
AndiHello and welcome to this episode of the, I should have known podcast, the trivia podcast that can't be trusted each week. Our quiz master presents you with four big facts on a topic, but one of those facts is a lie. And this week we are finishing up our TV themed month and I will be your quiz master I'm Andy. And I'm going to be presenting you. Four facts about TV taboos. But one of my facts is a lie. So join our other host soups and Tanner and trying to figure out which one it is.
TannerTaboos.
AndiYeah. So get ready to be uncomfortable. so love hanging fruit. What show had what is widely, but erroneously considered the first interracial kiss on TV
Tannererroneously. So the first thing is wrong already.
Andithis is why it's the low hanging fruit. Yeah.
TannerI always heard that it was star Trek.
Andiyes. so Quite famously in the us in the original series star Trek in 1968, characters captain Kirk and Lieutenant Auraura. Captain Kirk is played by William Shatner, who is a white actor. And Lieutenant aura is played by Michelle Nichols, who.
Tanneris
AndiBlack actress. They kissed in this episode,
Tannermm-hmm,
AndiSo this is a good, low hanging fruit because it illustrates a couple caveats. We need to keep in mind for this episode. Okay. So one is, we're gonna be talking exclusively about the us. Okay. Because actually a British movie on TV had a black, white kiss. About nine years before. also this fact is confusing because what's a kiss and what's interracial. So some of the taboos and things we talk about, it's kind of like you can get really into the weeds. We're not gonna do that. We're gonna keep it kind of light. We're not gonna care about more obscure places.
TannerYeah.
AndiAnd then the other issue that comes up is incidental versus scripted. So this was a scripted moment. Mm-hmm in the. This was not, you're doing a live show on the streets and a couple kisses. This is like they planned this kiss. The reason this kiss is remembered more is one because star Trek was hugely popular. Whereas these other shows were not. And two, because it was in the us. So in the us only one year before this kiss, it was still illegal in some parts of the country for black and white people to marry.
TannerHmm damn.
SupsAll right.
TannerThat was certainly a taboo then Wow.
AndiThat was a big moment.
TannerSo with this episode, we're really gonna have to try to get into the mindset of the people at the time.
SupsRight?
AndiWell, some of the taboos some people would say they are still taboos there's some of them are still debated, but yes, some of these are definitely gonna be like, wait, people cared about
Tannerthat. Okay.
AndiI think fact number one, it will be a good example. So we're going roughly chronologically. Great. So fact number one, first four major shows with couples shown in the same bed together. Starred real life married couples.
Tannercouples.
SupsOh, wow.
Andiit wasn't until 1964, before a couple was shown in a single bed together where the actors weren't married.
TannerWow. They just straight up didn't show people in beds.
AndiSo back in the day, first of all, it have to be a married couple.
TannerYeah.
AndiWe just, it has to
Supsto be. Yeah. Yeah,
Tanneryeah.
AndiIf there was ever a scene of them in their bedroom, like going to sleep, they had two separated twin beds. So they slept in two separate twin beds. Mm-hmm on off screen
Tannerand it wasn't like they were divorced or they were having trouble or anything. Nope. They were a happy couple.
Andiyeah. And actually for a lot of these shows the couples started separate beds and then eventually they just kind of were like, this is annoying. just put 'em in one bed. Who cares?
Tannerbit. Yeah.
Andiyeah. So the very first show. To have, this was actually the first sitcom ever as a very rarely known show called Mary Kay and Johnny. Okay. This show came out in 1947.
TannerWow.
Supsokay.
TannerVery early.
AndiWhich is why if you've never heard of it, you can be forgiven because all of the tapes were destroyed.
TannerOh, no,
AndiOnly one episode survives and a few fragments.
Supsfragment.
Tanneris a thing that I read about with how TV works. It was more cost effective to reuse the tapes or to get rid of them. So this totally makes sense that they lost all the tapes, or they destroyed them idea.
AndiSo the. Characters, Mary Kay and Johnny were Mary Kay and Johnny Sterns who were a married couple mm-hmm and they were shown in a bed together. The next famous show was, I love Lucy. Oh, also a show called the adventure of Ozzie and Harriet.
Tannerheard those names. Yeah.
AndiAnd then be witched, which also stars a real life married couple The first major show was the monsters. Oh, okay. In 1964.
Tannerthey weren't married.
Andithe actors weren't married. Yeah. actually. you might read sometimes that the first show with a couple that's not married in a same bed is the Flintstones
Tanneroh, because it's they're voice actors. Oh goodness.
AndiYeah. So that's hilarious. That's kind of often people will say it's the Flintstones. Yeah. Obviously that's an animated show.
Tannerso
AndiNobody was in the bed together at all. Anyway. Yeah.
TannerMm-hmm
Andithis whole concept is super bizarre to me
Supswas this like a reflection of the society back then? I mean, this taboo has to come from
Tannersomewhere. Yeah. Was it risque to show people in bed or was it showing people in bed together meant they were gonna have sex or like, what was the issue?
AndiHonestly, I don't know. I really think it's just the suggestion of sex, right. That you're in bed. So it's suggestive, I
TannerI see mm-hmm okay.
AndiAnd I think the idea was that the sensors weren't as upset because they knew that those two people are married anyway.
TannerRight.
AndiSo it's not like they're promoting premarital sex or something,
TannerYeah. It's not as risque. That's a very
Supsweird tip. And then we have, shows of today where We've taken a complete
AndiU-turn Yes. Well, yeah, we have come a long way. I suppose you could say.
Supsvery interesting.
AndiWell, yeah,
Supsas if, if they didn't promote it on TV, people weren't gonna have sex. Like, so
Andiit's pretty ridiculous. Nowadays. But this was a big
Tannerdeal.
AndiYeah.
TannerBut like trying to figure out if the, that could be a lie, you know, it would be the married couple part for me.
SupsYeah.
TannerI'll have to see what the next fact, I guess.
AndiSo back number two Cher was allowed to show her belly button on the sunny and Cher show, because it was an Audi.
SupsAudi.
AndiSo just real quick, if you don't know
Supsthat Wow.
AndiBelly button is an Audi, like the fleshy part inside sticks out. Yep. Yep. If you don't know it, then
Tannerand the other one is an inny.
AndiMost people have inny right where you're belly button goes in. Right. But she had an Audi. So this is considered to be the reason why she was allowed to. this was in 1975 mm-hmm And before that it was absolutely not allowed to show a female belly button,
Tannera female, one
Andispecifically female
TannerNaval. Well, yeah, I mean, everyone knows that's the sexiest
Supspart of it woman,
Tannerso
AndiOh man.
SupsYeah.
TannerWow.
AndiYeah, there's a show called I dream of genie,
TannerMm-hmm
AndiStarting Barbara Eden, and she had to go through great lengths to ensure her belly button didn't show because she wore kind of a, like a belly dancer esque outfit, cuz she's a
Supsa genie Jeanie.
AndiAnd it was high wasted. It covered her belly button, but barely, she actually had to wear like a prosthetic, like a patch of skin to protect her really belly button because it would fall all
Tannerthe time.
AndiYeah. she said it was a nightmare to shoot with it. So this reminds me of the issue nowadays with nipples.
SupsYeah.
AndiYeah.
TannerMen's nipples
Andiare okay. You can't show female nipples. You can show male ni.
TannerMm-hmm
Supsthat really bothers me on Instagram. Like, all these models posting the photos, everything's out there, but you just blur out that And suddenly that's okay. Yeah.
TannerYeah. Okay. And if you put a sticker of a male nipple over the top, then it wouldn't get blurred. Yeah,
AndiSo a lot of people kind of compare it to that. Whereas like the belly button used to be seen apparently as an obscene part of your body and, and was taboo. So the deal with the sunny and Cher show, it was a comedy hour skit show. And. Share many times wore outfits that showed her entire midriff, right. Uhhuh. And she made this choice, this wasn't an accident. She made the choice to show her belly button. And she said it was like, who
Tannercares?
AndiYeah, she was over it.
SupsIt's shared
Andiyeah,
SupsI,
AndiRight. And she. Was really thin at this time and, and quite muscular. So her belly button like stuck out. Yeah. and they were like, well, this is fine, cuz it's not sexy.
TannerMm.
AndiOne of her producers basically justified it that.
Tannerlike,
Andibecause of her body type. It's not sexy. So it's fine.
Tannerwow.
Andivery much disagree. I have seen pictures. I think it's plenty sexy, but it wasn't obscene.
SupsOkay. Wow.
TannerThat's awfully
Andiweird.
TannerI never heard of something like that. Like, oh, it's an Audi. Okay. You
Supscan show it
Andibut if you watch like old shows from that era, all the women are wearing high waisted, everything, high waisted bikinis, you can show an entire leg, but
Tannernot the belly button
AndiBut I think
TannerCher is amazing. Good for her, for pushing to wear what
Andiwherever she wanted. Yeah. Yeah.
Tannerthat's awesome.
Andiyeah. You know, 1975 was what almost 50 years ago, you know, 50 years from now, are you gonna be like, can
Tanneryou believe that you
Andinipples? Like they had to blur the nipple. Yeah. You know, so maybe, yeah, I think so. Maybe it'll be like
Tannerthat. I'll have to wait and see just like we have to wait and see what fact three
Supsis.
AndiGood segue. fact, number three, the first same sex kiss on network TV between women occurred almost 10 years before the first between men.
TannerOkay. Okay.
AndiAnd again, this is network TV, and this is a TV show. So we are ignoring TV, movies, and plays being shown on TV. We're talking about scripted network TV. Okay. So the show on NBC was called LA law.
SupsOh,
AndiAnd featured a kiss between a by woman and a straight woman. Okay. basically the show coined the term lesbian kiss episode.
SupsOh,
TannerOh,
Andiwhich wow.
Tannerwhere would we be without the lesbian kiss episode?
SupsI think Nielsen ratings
Andiwhat was
Supslike next level.
Tannerthen? Or did they scare away? People cause of the taboo.
AndiSo that was the point of a lesbian kiss episode is one where it doesn't really have anything to do with the plot or the characters, but is entirely to generate shock and
Tannerconversation. Yeah.
Andia hundred percent that was. How people viewed it, the writer's claim, it was to further flesh out one of the characters, but the relationship doesn't go anywhere. Right. this is not a couple, one of the women. She's like a one time character. This is the episode. She's a so it's for shock value. Yeah. In 1991 there were a few other shows that had kisses between women. Also it's important to note, this is a romantic
Tannerish kiss
AndiUhhuh So back to star Trek, I love
Tannerstar Trek.
AndiYes. So in star Trek, two female characters Auraura and nurse chapel, they kiss on the mouth. But like a very quick, like almost French, like
Tannergreeting, not
Supsa French kiss, Not a French kiss. Yeah, yeah, yeah. oh my God.
AndiNo, not a French.
Supskiss. That would
Tannertake a couple of
Andiminutes,
Supsbut
Tannerlike a greeting, like Yeah. Greeting. Oh, hi. Nice to see you smooch.
AndiYes. A greeting kind of like on the corner of the mouth, it's not romantic, so that doesn't count. We're talking about people who are like,
SupsRomantically right.
Andikind of, because apparently they didn't have a relationship anyway. And so then between male characters was in 2000 on Dawson's
TannerCreek. Oh,
Andiwow. Have
Tanneryou heard of Dawson's
AndiYeah. I've heard
TannerDawson's
SupsI think very difficult. Not to hear about. Yeah.
AndiYeah. Mm-hmm so Dawson's Creek was a teen drama, right? Becoming of age and these two characters. It was actually very dramatic. It was a big build up. It was a season finale episode and these two male characters kiss. And this one is kind of considered to be the first gay, passionate kiss on TV passion, all the ones before, especially between the women, it was either they were testing kind of like, I think I might be Gabe like, oh, I'll find out
Tannerfrom one
Supskid. And that's how you find out whether you're gay or
Tannernot go around kissing people.
Supskissing's the kids test.
Andiapparently. Okay. Oh, wow.
Tannerbut the, passionate part.
AndiYeah. So these two characters on Dawson's Creek, They were kind of dating and it was a very romantic moment. And so it was like these two characters. were like in love, kind of mean they were teenagers. Right. You know? Yeah. But this was like real romance. it was very cute. Like you get the warm fuzzies. It's not sexy. It's not testing. It's not for fun. or a joke. Yeah. Because a lot of kisses between, male characters for laughs. Right.
SupsThat To me doesn't
Tannercount mm-hmm
AndiRight.
TannerBut it was still a taboo.
AndiIt was a pretty big,
Tannerdeal.
Supsand
Andiit was a
Tannerhit for the show. Yeah. I was gonna say, how did the
Andirating suit.
SupsI mean, Dawson's Creek
Tannerwas a popular show. Yeah. It's interesting that we were talking about taboos. And so it might turn people off, but with TV, you play into that shock factor and it Turns people on or at least they
Supsturn on the TV. Oh,
Andiwhat the,
SupsWow.
TannerYep. I
Supscan
Tannerthat. Yeah. There's still some room for it to be a lie, but I think that's
Andibelievable. That's my note back number four. Okay. Fact number four. I'm
Supsre excited about
Tannernumber four. Okay.
AndiFact, number four. originally the FCC find ABC 1.4 million for a shot of a female backside on N Y P D blue, even though the scene was not sexual,
Tannercan't show butts on TV's basically what this boils down to. Yeah.
Andithe scene was not sexual this female character is. At like her boyfriend's house and her boyfriend has an eight year old son and she's getting ready for the shower and the boy walks
Supsin.
TannerOkay.
AndiAnd so you get the shot of her whole ass and her whole back. And then the camera flips, which I actually think is even a better shot where it's to the front. But because as a child, he has big ears and they're like very perfectly over her nipples. And it's like, it's actually a really great
Tannershot. Oh wow
SupsIt's very autistic, I
AndiYeah. They like planned it. They were thinking how much can we show
TannerWell, they were also probably thinking how much is the fine gonna be for this
AndiJust so everyone knows the FCC is the federal communications commission. So they're the body of the us government that is in charge of the standards relating to broadcasting
Tannermm-hmm So they censor
Supsthe cen board.
Andiyeah. So at the time this was the largest fine that they had given out. Because this episode came out in 2003, but the FCC didn't issue its fine until 2008.
TannerWhat
AndiThe network had shown the show many times. And so they got fined. like a hundred thousand plus dollars per showing. And so then that totaled to $1.4 million. This show N Y P D It was famous for sexuality and nudity on TV. This is a network show, right? It's on ABC. Well, it was, it ran, 1993 to 2005.
TannerWow. It's a long run.
Andiyeah. So they'd really push the envelope on this mm-hmm and so a lot of people hated the show.
Tannerit's too much for them too much taboo
AndiI mean yeah.
TannerSo the, but that was shown was not sexual.
AndiYeah. the thing that also kind of wrinkled people was the show had shown a man's butt many times,
Tannerwhich many
Andibig deal Yeah. But they didn't get fined for showing a man's butt. Right. But then there's this seven, second
Supsof are you surprised at this point?
AndiI dunno if you've
Tannernoticed
Andia, theme with
TannerI should have known
Supsshould known, like, I know this,
AndiYeah. So actually, in 2011, this went to the Supreme court among other cases and was thrown out because they said that the FCCS rules were too vague and violated the first amendment of free speech. Because the rule said you can't show These body parts in relation to sexual and exploratory activities.
SupsOkay. Mm-hmm
Andiso they were like, well, obviously the butt is both sexual and atory.
Tannerbut not if it's not on a toilet or in a bed, right.
SupsOr on the beach.
Tannerin a car, right? Yeah It
Supsthe car. Yeah. Okay.
AndiYeah. So this did get thrown out eventually.
SupsSo ABC didn't pay the fine. No.
TannerOkay
SupsGood Some sense prevailed.
Andiyeah,
Supsokay. So we must check this episode out to decode it
TannerTo find seven seconds of a $1 million butt
SupsAll right.
Andithat is a $1.4 million ask. Actually the actors had mentioned that she was honored.
Tannerwow
AndiYeah
TannerYeah. That's kind of hard to believe. That's a lot of money.
AndiIt's interesting to think. What's the next taboo to be
Tannerbe broken. Right
SupsSo Andy before Tanner and I take a guess, which, As the lie could you please repeat the facts for us?
AndiOf course. So fact number one, the first four major shows with couples shown in the same bed together. Starred real life, married couples fact number two, share in the sunny and share show was allowed to show her belly button because it was an Audi fact. Number three, the first same sex kiss on network TV between women occurred almost 10 years before the first between men and fact number four. Originally the FCC find ABC 1.4 million for a shot of a female backside on N Y P D blue, even though the scene was not sexual. One of those is all lie.
TannerOh, boy,
SupsWhat you thinking?
TannerThese are tough. I really like fact number two. I want that one to
Supsbe true. Oh no I think, I think that's like you think so. Mm I think it was just blanket, belly button, like you know? and she was allowed to maybe because of some other, other reason, not because of this,
TannerAudi. Yeah.
SupsNo, I have a feeling it's number two, but even though I want it to be true. Yeah. But I don't know. What are you
Tannerthinking? That's a good idea. Yeah. I'm thinking it might be the third one. I think maybe they showed men kissing before women
SupsSee you're saying that Dawsons Creek was like the first one or even Dawsons Creek is a light.
TannerMaybe it's a different show or maybe Dawson Creek was accurate, but the women kissing was later, right. LA law.
SupsOoh that could be interesting. That is actually the men
Tannerkissing. Yeah. Yeah.
SupsYeah no, I'm gonna stick to my gut. Stick with number
Tannertwo. Okay. I like the other ones and they make a
Supsa lot of sense.
TannerYeah. I'm gonna go with number three.
SupsOkay.
AndiOkay. The women did kiss
Tannerfirst. They really
Andireally did. Yeah. The women kissed first, but they were showing like male couples in like the seventies. Yeah.
TannerSo they said that they were gay, but they weren't kissing.
AndiYeah Yeah. They were a couple, they're married or their partners or whatever in the seventies. Wow. But no one kissed until 2000 The lie is fact number two.
TannerOh, it is Cher. Doesn't have an Audi.
AndiCher does not
Supshave an
TannerAudi.
AndiOh yeah. Well, at least she did in 1975. I don't know now. Yeah, So I made up the Audi part. Cher was the first major and deliberate person to show belly button. But the reason was literally cuz she was Cher and she wanted
Tannerto
SupsSee
Andishe was like, it looks better like that I'm doing it. I don't
TannerYeah I mean her name is in the title, so who's gonna tell her no
Andiyeah. And the producers did say gross stuff about her belly button like that, she was very skinny and she was like really fit and skinny.
Tannermm-hmm
AndiSo they did say it was unsexy. But no one ever really gave a reason why it got to pass the sensor. Other than I think by 75 people were kind of more open to it. the us code of practice for TV broadcasters. they got rid of it eight years later. So it was kind of on its way out anyway, it was kind of not really being enforced anymore and she's share, so she's just, I'm doing it. So,
Supssense
TannerThat's really cool.
SupsYeah.
Tannershould have known,
SupsI should have known
AndiThanks for listening to this episode of the, I should have known podcast. We are finished with our TV theme with this episode, and we'll be continuing onto a new one next month. And if you have an any belly button, you should share this episode with your friends. And thanks for listening.
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